We add a new configuration flag for `isDefEq`:
`Meta.Config.univApprox`.
When it is true, we approximate the solution for universe constraints
such as
- `u =?= max u ?v`, we use `?v := u`, and ignore the solution `?v := 0`.
- `max u v =?= max u ?w`, we use `?w := v`, and ignore the solution `?w
:= max u v`.
We only apply these approximations when there the contraints cannot be
postponed anymore. These approximations prevent error messages such as
```
error: stuck at solving universe constraint
max u ?u.3430 =?= u
```
This kind of error seems to appear in several Mathlib files.
We currently do not use these approximations while synthesizing type
class instances.
Currently this will fail in two tests, because of changes in #3965.
* Sometimes we need to add an additional universe annotation, or we get
a `stuck at solving universe constraint max u ?u =?= u`.
* Sometimes we need to specify arguments that could previously be found
by unification.
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Co-authored-by: Leonardo de Moura <leomoura@amazon.com>
