This PR aligns current coverage of `find`-type theorems across
`List`/`Array`/`Vector`. There are still quite a few holes in this API,
which will be filled later.
This PR completes the alignment of lemmas about monadic functions on
`List/Array/Vector`. Amongst other changes, we change the simp normal
form from `List.forM` to `ForM.forM`, and correct the definition of
`List.flatMapM`, which previously was returning results in the incorrect
order. There remain many gaps in the verification lemmas for monadic
functions; this PR only makes the lemmas uniform across
`List/Array/Vector`.
