This PR fixes a bug in the pattern selection heuristic used in `grind`.
It was unfolding definitions/abstractions that were not supposed to be
unfolded. See `grind_constProp.lean` for examples affected by this bug.
This PR improves the usability of the `[grind =]` attribute by
automatically handling
forbidden pattern symbols. For example, consider the following theorem
tagged with this attribute:
```
getLast?_eq_some_iff {xs : List α} {a : α} : xs.getLast? = some a ↔ ∃ ys, xs = ys ++ [a]
```
Here, the selected pattern is `xs.getLast? = some a`, but `Eq` is a
forbidden pattern symbol.
Instead of producing an error, this function converts the pattern into a
multi-pattern,
allowing the attribute to be used conveniently.
