This PR adds the `@[expose]` attribute to many functions (and changes
some theorems to be by `:= (rfl)`) in preparation for the `@[defeq]`
attribute change in #8419.
This PR changes the signature of `Array.set` to take a `Nat`, and a
tactic-provided bound, rather than a `Fin`.
Corresponding changes (but without the auto-param) for `Array.get` will
arrive shortly, after which I'll go more pervasively through the Array
API.
