This PR fixes a few bugs in the `rw` tactic: it could "steal" goals
because they appear in the type of the rewrite, it did not do an occurs
check, and new proof goals would not be synthetic opaque. This PR also
lets the `rfl` tactic assign synthetic opaque metavariables so that it
is equivalent to `exact rfl`.
Implementation note: filtering old vs new is not sufficient. This PR
partially addresses the bug where the rw tactic creates natural
metavariables for each of the goals; now new proof goals are synthetic
opaque.
Metaprogramming API: Instead of `Lean.MVarId.rewrite` prefer
`Lean.Elab.Tactic.elabRewrite` for elaborating rewrite theorems and
applying rewrites to expressions.
Closes#10172
