This PR completes aligning `List`/`Array`/`Vector` lemmas about
`flatten`. `Vector.flatten` was previously missing, and has been added
(for rectangular sizes only). A small number of missing `Option` lemmas
were also need to get the proofs to go through.
This PR makes it possible to write `rw (occs := [1,2]) ...` instead of
`rw (occs := .pos [1,2]) ...` by adding a coercion from `List.Nat` to
`Lean.Meta.Occurrences`.
Following up #5928, updates the syntax for `omega` and `solve_by_elim`
and restores the syntax quotations in their implementations.
Following up #5898, uses the new tactic syntax in the library, replacing
all uses of `(config := ...)`.
