This PR switches the way olean files store identifier suggestions. The
ordering introduced in #11367 and #11529 made sense if we were only
storing incorrect -> correct mappings, but for the reference manual we
want to store the correct -> incorrect mappings as well, and so it is
more sensible to store just the correct -> incorrect mapping that mimics
the author-generated data better.
Also tweaks error messages further in preparation for public-facing
@[suggest_for] annotations and forbids suggestions on non-public names.
Does not make generally-visible changes as there are no introduced uses
of @[suggest_for] annotations yet.